New Beginning!

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Today's topic would be just about a very general thinking of most teenagers nowaday. It's about "Reality".
See if you would agree with me!
Let's me begin for today......

We are told that we "create our own reality", but it may be very dificult to see how this can be so in a world where we often feel powerless and overwhelmed. Being told to "think positive" can simply make us feel that everything is our fault, because we can't manage to keep a smile on our faces! It's true that life is what you make it, but that suble yet radical change of perspective may be very elusive.

Some times it is possible to overlook some very simple things when we are distressed and pressurised. Often we need to "feel understood" - and to understand ourselves - before we are able to move on.

It's important that we sort ot what's going on in our lives and inside us before we take steps in another direction.

"Reality" is a strange thing. Let us look, for example, at soemthing unpleasant (because these things by their very nature get more scurtiny than nice things!) - let us look at what happens when there is an accident.

The police take statements from observers, but it is a known fact that the people who have been on the scene will have perceived the event in many different ways, even though they were all detached bystanders. "Well". you may say, with some justifications, "that's just because some folk are more observant than others." True, but could that possibly be only part of the picture? n the first place, whether what a person has seen is totally objectively "true" or not, the impression received may radically affect their life. In the second place, could it be that "reality" isn't quite as solid as we believe?

After all, quantum physics is now showing us that the observer can actually affect the process of the experiment - for instance in the behaviour of the particles of light. By narrowing a beam of light down to a single stream, scientists have shown that photons behave differently when being watched. Does it sound incredible? We are used to science very "physical" and we are surrounded by evidence that science manipulates our surroundings in a radical and enduring fashion - and who would be other wise?

Few people would want to go back to a time without street lamps and central heating. But science may also have taken from us some of our faith in ourselves and our powers to use our imagination, widen our sope and say, "anything could happen!".

Very small shifts can give rise to immense changes. If your attitude shifts just a tiny bit, over a period of time, people will begin to react differently to you - not just your altered facial expressions and body languages, but also to something more subliminal, to presence you radiate. As their actions change, so yours will respond likewise, and a process is a set in motion, for good or ill. Sometimes what starts that process maybe something fairly small; and so from the acorn, the oak tree grows.

Remember, even a small change in you will mean that others see you differently - and this can be the start of something great!